http://www.xenex.org

if my man received oral sex by another man is he GAY


He's at least bi. Why is this so hard to grasp? Actions go a long way toward defining one's sexuality. That doesn't mean masturbating makes him gay, though. If I started buggering llamas in thongs, I couldn't in good conscience tell people I was no llama shagger.
By the way, the search engine doesn't notice or care if you capitalize the word "gay." It doesn't make your boyfriend gayer. You know what does make him gayer? Getting head from other guys. Gay oral sex does not produce enviable fetuses or scientological indigo children, however, and for that we can be grateful.

Xen is published by Cave Drawing Ink in "Rise of the Outlanders!", is the author of "Beside the Still Water", and head writer in the forthcoming "Parallaxis". He was featured in the Summer 2010 issue of Broken City Magazine. His story "Always Darkest" published in Paragon III. The first novel of his Night's Dream Series, We Shadows is available from Double Dragon Publishing. He syndicated throughout the internet. He will write for you if you pay him.